Lick them, bite them, nibble them, suck them, love them, adore them, wet them, run your finger so softly over them it almost feels as though there is no contact, flicker your eye lashes on them, tease them with a sweet moist strawberry, put honey on them and lick it off, whisper to them, feel the hot breath coming out of them, feel the vibration running through them as a moan escapes, hold the person firmly by their hair while you play with them, slide your nipple over them, dedicate time to devouring them, worship them, make them quiver, make them beg for more…………… slooooowwwww downnnnnn ……………and enjoy this succulent moment, make it last. Put some sexy music on while you engage in a sensual session of lip play.

Lips are considered an erogenous zone (a part of the body that is sensitive to sexual stimulation) and are packed with nerve endings. Lip play releases dopamine and activates the arousal system of the whole body. Some like it gentle, some like it soft, some like all the above – finding these things out is part of the adventure of exploring with a lover. Everyone has different preferences and some people haven’t taken the time to slow down enough to know what they do and don’t like.

Top sexologist tip of the month: slow the fuck down and dedicate time to exploring and awakening different parts the body for a deeper connection and more intense whole body pleasure.